Wednesday, November 9, 2022

Book Reviews: Everybody Fights: So Why Not Get Better At It? by Kim and Penn Holderness

Everybody Fights: So Why Not Get Better At It?
by Kim and Penn Holderness (395.872 Hol)

You may be familiar with the authors from their YouTube and other media presence as the Holderness Family or their recent appearance on The Amazing Race TV series, which they won. They were also both in the television news industry for a number of years. In this 2021 release the married couple give detailed accounts of misunderstandings, assumptions, and outright arguments/fights they have had over the course of their relationship. These events are used to illustrate ways to develop better communication and relationship skills, particularly for partners/spouses. Their sense of humor, as well as their devotion to each other and their family life, shines through.

 

A lot of the content is based on Penn and Kim’s friendship, and counseling sessions, with their friend and pastor, Dr. Christopher Edmonston. They quote and credit him so frequently that I’m surprised his name isn’t included in the author credits. The book is arranged with a structure that highlights Kim’s and Penn’s sides of a disagreement or other problem they have encountered in their years together and how they, and anyone experiencing similar relationship roadblocks, can resolve it and possibly prevent a recurrence. This personal journal of ‘fighting’, then, is also a workbook for couples who are already experiencing such challenges or are likely to in the future.

 

( official Everybody Fights page on the official theholdernessfamily.com web site )

 

Recommended by Becky W.C.
Walt Branch Library

 

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