Showing posts with label death. Show all posts
Showing posts with label death. Show all posts

Friday, November 26, 2021

Music Book Review: Mortality and Music: Popular Music and the Awareness of Death by Christopher Partridge

Mortality and Music: Popular Music and the Awareness of Death
by Christopher Partridge (Music 781.64 Par)

 Music plays a complex and lifelong role in so many of our lives, and that relationship often extends to the very end of life and beyond, as we use music to celebrate those who we have lost, or to help us work through our grief. Many literary and musical forms exist for this purpose: the funeral march, the dirge, the requiem, the threnody, the lamentation, the elegy, sounds of the oppari, ululation and keening, and from the opposite kind of perspective, the murder ballad tradition

 

As its title suggests, Mortality and Music: Popular Music and the Awareness of Death by Christopher Partridge explores this ongoing relationship between music and our collective sense of mortality. The musical focus here is on relatively contemporary popular music, and Western pop music at that. As we learn in the introduction, Partridge chose the modern era for this survey because our cultural conception of and exposure to death has shifted in the modern era, particularly in Western countries. That is to say that historically, when we all lived shorter lives and modern medicine wasn’t so modern, everyone was still exposed more directly to death. Death happened all around us then, relatively speaking, and now it more often happens behind the walls of hospitals or care facilities. And when you’re not exposed to something as frequently, it becomes more mysterious. So we should see new dimensions in our musical relationship to death, or the way mortality is represented in music, as our exposure to death changes.

 

I don’t envy anyone trying to organize a book around such a difficult subject. Partridge handles this by breaking up the book into different cultural conceptions of death, more or less: the sacred versus the profane, our cultural conceptions of the undead or immortal, violence and death in transgressive art, and devotion and myth-making around departed musical celebrities. These kinds of divisions end up being handy because different kinds of musical contrasts fit into them nicely. The first of five sections, called “Mortality and Immortality,” serves as a bit of an historical overview of that shift in our cultural exposure to death that’s changed in the modern era, as alluded to in the introduction. While it’s not an exhaustive survey, you will find some references to historical literature and historical music, and how they reflected the relationship to death held in previous eras, which is a useful comparison. I’m glad he took a chapter to further establish this shift, because it seems like one of those situations you really have to think about — it’s hard to “feel” it, per se. Just like it’s difficult for us to really hear old monophonic plainchant music the way it was originally heard — our ears are too trained to listen for the implications of harmony and chords — it’s hard to imagine living in previous eras where everyone is dead around 40 years of age, some even younger. As Partridge reflects, “Death has shifted from the center of Western culture, where it was accepted as a natural part of everyday life, to its edges, where as far as possible, its grotesque reality is excluded from peoples’ minds.”

 

So how is this shown in our music? It’s hard to summarize such a nuanced book, which goes on to discuss many perspectives on mortality found in modern music, but broadly speaking, we address death as something philosophical or symbolic, mostly. We play with it, contrasting it with sex, another extreme in human experience. Sometimes when it seems like we’re engaging with it more directly in transgressive forms of art and music, it still turns out to function mostly symbolically, as the “transgressive” or “profane” must frame its dialogue in the language of the more commonly-held morality, or “sacred.” It’s a fascinating read — I hadn’t thought about the relationship quite like Partridge presents it here, but he makes a compelling argument. And while doing so, he weaves lots of popular music styles into the narrative, from goth rock to death metal to indie rock to punk to hip hop and more. I feel like there are a few weaknesses in the book — in particular the audience appeal and demographic for genres like death metal and gangsta rap aren’t fully understood by the author, by my estimation. Those issues aside, there is a lot of substance to wrestle with here.

 

(If you enjoy this, you may also wish to try Singing Death: Reflections on Music and Morality edited by Helen Dell and Helen M. Hickey or Opera’s second death by Slavoj Žižek.)

 

( Wikipedia page for Christopher Partridge )


Recommended by Scott S.
Polley Music Library

 

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Saturday, July 31, 2021

DVD Review: All My Life

All My Life

(DVD All)

 

If you pay any attention to trending romance stories in pop culture, you may have heard about the experience of Jennifer Carter and Solomon Chou, whose friends and family initiated a GoFundMe fundraising campaign to help them pay for their wedding and honeymoon, after Sol was diagnosed with inoperable cancer only months before their original wedding was to have taken place.

 

All My Life tells their story. Jessica Rothe plays Jenn and Harry Shum Jr. plays Sol, with an extensive cast of supporting actors as their friends, co-workers and physicians. The film telescopes some of the real-life events in the couples’ life, shortening the timeframe of some of the actual events. Yet, the feel of the film isn’t rushed. Rothe and Shum have marvelous chemistry as the ill-fated couple, with Rothe particularly shining, the more stress she’s placed under.

 

Despite the sad ending that most viewers should know is coming, this was an uplifting and life-affirming movie. I enjoyed it very much and give it a strong recommendation!

[ Internet Movie Database entry for this film ] | [ official All My Life Facebook page ]

 

Recommended by Scott C.
Bennett Martin Public Library — Public Services

 

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Saturday, February 27, 2021

Book Review: Death Wins a Goldfish: Reflections From a Grim Reaper's Yearlong Sabbatical by Brian Rea

Death Wins a Goldfish: Reflections From a Grim Reaper’s Yearlong Sabbatical
by Brian Rea (741.5 Rea)

Death receives notice from Human Resources that he has scads of vacation time and MUST use it. So he’s forced to take off work for the next year. Death decides to keep a journal of his thoughts and activities while he’s vacationing. This is actually a humor (comic, graphic novel) book about work-life balance — who knew that topic would be funny, poignant, and sweet?

 

Pay close attention to the illustrations. You’ll find lots of unexpected humor. I loved Death’s rabbit slippers which aren’t really rabbits (or maybe they are?) but are skulls. Be sure to read the author’s introduction, which is equally laugh-out-loud.

 

Death Wins a Goldfish is a very quick read and I was sorry when it was over.

[ official Brian Rea web site ]

 

Recommended by Charlotte M.
Bennett Martin Public Library — Public Service

 

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Monday, February 15, 2021

Book Review: The House by Paco Roca

The House
by Paco Roca (741.5 Roc)

The House by Paco Rosa is a stunning work of graphic storytelling, and a compelling look at how we all deal with significant transitional passages in life. Roca is an award-winning Spanish cartoonist, and The House originally came out in Spanish, before this English translation came out from Fantagraphics in 2019.

 

This finely-detailed graphic novel tells the story of three adult siblings, all returning to the coastal vacation home they helped build with their father, one year after that father has passed away. The three siblings — Vicente, Jose and Carla — are each having difficulties coming to terms with the death of their father, and their unresolved relationships with him, each for differing reasons. Gathering for a weekend at the old house, they share memories of their family life as they clean up and repair the place for eventual sale.

 

The emotional impact of their quiet conversations and emotional revelations is profound. The design work by Roca in this horizontally-arranged graphic format is brilliant — he makes challenging use of panel arrangements. His use of a muted colorscape makes for subtle shifts between contemporary scenes and flashbacks to the past. And his minutely-detailed panels are exquisite.

 

There are no earth-shattering developments, no take-your-breath-away confrontations. This is all quiet conversations and contemplation. And yet, the result is a powerful little exploration of life, family, home and legacy, recognizable and identifiable to anyone who’s lost a parent and suddenly feels incomplete.

 

I can’t recommend The House highly enough!

[ publisher’s official The House web page ] | [ Wikipedia page for Paco Roca ]

 

Recommended by Scott C.
Bennett Martin Public Library — Public Service

 

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Thursday, February 11, 2021

Book Review: H is for Hawk by Helen Macdonald

H is for Hawk

by Helen Macdonald (Biography Macdonald)

 

This is Ms. Macdonald’s story of coming to terms with her father’s sudden death and training a Goshawk, one of the most difficult hunting birds to train. Amongst the stories of her father, and of her training Mabel, she explores the book Goshawk by T. H. White, a book she first read when she was a child. She also discusses White’s struggles with life and training his hawk.

 

I understand Ms. Macdonald’s need to use White as a foil for her training and her bereavement. I looked up a copy of Goshawk and read some of the book, but I felt she spent far too much time on the details of White’s life, almost as if she was trying to excuse his behavior. On the other hand, this book had so much interesting information and experiences. I loved the details of training Mabel. As a dog trainer, I can see how so much of what “old school” dog trainers do is nothing but superstition. Training a hawk takes it down to the bare bones. What will get the animal to do the human’s bidding.

 

Watching Macdonald deal with the loss of her father is very familiar. The isolation that she craves, but finds unsatisfying is very real to me. Losing oneself in nature or training or any other distraction only delays the reality. You must feel the feelings to get beyond grief.

 

I was concerned that the book would be depressing, even sad, but this book touched me deeply. I felt a kinship with Macdonald. On the whole I would recommend this book to anyone interested in dealing with grief and, of course, falconry. It’s well written and almost lyrical. I listened to the books, and greatly enjoyed listening to Ms. Macdonald read her own book.

[If you enjoy this, you may also wish to try The Ravenmaster: My Life with the Ravens at the Tower of London by Christopher Skaife, Lab Girl by Hope Jahren, or The Year of Magical Thinking by Joan Didion.]

[ publisher’s official H is for Hawk web site ] | [ official Helen MacDonald Twitter feed ]

 

Recommended by Marcy G.
South Branch Library

 

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Monday, November 30, 2020

Book Review: The Lost Art of Dying by L.S. Dugdale

The Lost Art of Dying
by L.S. Dugdale (155.937 Dug)

This book caught my eye as I was browsing the new non-fiction shelves. As someone who lost her father in the past year, I was impressed with the description inside the front cover: “Our culture has overly medicalized death, making it institutional and sterile, prolonged by unnecessary resuscitations and other intrusive interventions…our reliance on modern medicine often extends suffering and strips us of our dignity.” The author tells us that our lives do not need to end this way. As a medical doctor with years of experience helping patients with end-of-life issues, the author presents a history of the practice of ars moriendi, the art of dying, and offers a plan for living well and dying well through preparation for death. Looking at death through the eyes of faith, the reader sees how death is treated by various cultures and what it means in our communities today.


[ publisher’s official Lost Art of Dying web site ]

 

Recommended by Kim J.
Bennett Martin Public Library — Public Service

 

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Monday, May 11, 2015

Ordinary Grace

Ordinary Grace
by William Kent Krueger

I read this book for the libraries Just Desserts mystery fiction discussion group, which recently chose it as their book-of-the-month. I've enjoyed the books in Krueger's Cork O'Connor series, and had the opportunity to see Krueger in person in April 2014, when he appeared at a bookstore in Lincoln, to promote Ordinary Grace. At the time, Krueger said that Ordinary Grace is his personal favorite of all the books he's written, and the one of which he's the most proud. This stand-alone novel, which won the Edgar Award for best Mystery Novel of the year, is set in the early 1960s, in a small, rural Minnesota town -- New Bremen. Told from the point-of-view of Frank Drum, the 13-year-old son of the town's Methodist minister, this is a coming-of-age tale for both Frank and his younger brother Jake, during a summer in which several local deaths all have a major impact on the townspeople of New Bremen. This tale is told very simply, but still reaches out and grabs you, demanding that you pay attention to all the small details of description and dialog. The character relationships make this story feel exceptionally "real" -- several Just Desserts group members, who grew up in small towns just like New Bremen, said the story pulled them in and reminded them of what small town life was like for them as children. In the end, though a mystery lies at the heart of this story, this is not a traditional "mystery novel", the likes of which Krueger is well-known for. Instead, this is a slice-of-life novel, with unforgettable characters and emotional confrontations. I can't recommend this highly enough! -- recommended by Scott C. - Bennett Martin Public Library [ see Scott's Reviewer Profile and more of his reviews ]

[If you enjoy this, you may also wish to try other books by William Kent Krueger, although be aware that Ordinary Grace is different than any of his other novels.]

[Also available in book-on-cd and Large Print formats.]

[ official Ordinary Grace page on the official William Kent Krueger web site ]

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Thursday, April 2, 2015

Smoke Gets in Your Eyes...and Other Lessons From the Crematory by Caitlin Doughty

Smoke Gets in Your Eyes...and Other Lessons From the Crematory
by Caitlin Doughty [Biography Doughty]

Told with humor and compassion, this memoir is about a young woman's desire to explore the topic of death. She takes a job at a crematory and later attends mortuary school and becomes a licensed mortician. This memoir is a frank behind the scenes look at the death industry in this country. It will make you think about how our society approaches death and dying. -- recommended by Tammy T. - Bennett Martin Public Library

[If you enjoy this, you may also wish to try Stiff: the Curious Lives of Human Cadavers by Mary Roach.]

[ official The Order of the Good Death web site - managed by Caitlin Doughty ]


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Sunday, June 8, 2014

Customer Review - The Fault in Our Stars

The Fault in Our Stars
by John Green [YA Green]

I'd say this is one of the best books I've ever read. Mainly, I wanted to read this before the movie comes out. But, my friend did recommend this to me, because it's an awesome book. I believe that this book has an excellent plot and storyline, great for teens. It's an amazing love story between two cancer patients. -- review submitted by Amilia B. - a customer of the Gere Branch Library

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Friday, June 6, 2014

Rest in Pieces by Bess Lovejoy

Rest in Pieces: The Curious Fates of Famous Corpses
by Bess Lovejoy [306.9 Lov]

Fascinating and humorous little volume that looks at the physical afterlife of several noteworthy human beings' bodies. If you thought that people could suffer indignations while they were alive -- wait until you've read about what happens to the earthly remains of some of these historical celebrities! Ranging from ancient religious figures (like the Saint Nicholas who inspired the Santa Claus mythology), Thomas Beckett, Voltaire, Moliere and Ludwig Van Beethoven, to such recent figures as Hunter S. Thompson, Timothy Leary, Gram Parsons and Osama Bin Laden, the fates of these folks bodies can be truly crazy. Lovejoy's book covers people in the following categories: Saints and Sinners, Science and Medicine, Sports, Literature and Entetainment, Unsolved Mysteries, Politicians, Collectible Corpses (truly bizarre!), Love and Devotion, and bizarre Last Wishes. Did you know that Einstein's brain was stolen? Did you know Johnny Depp paid to a have a special cannon built to shoot gonzo journalist Hunter S. Thompson's ashes into the sky? Learn the truth about what really happened to baseball great Ted Williams' head. Find out which parts of Rasputin are buried in which locations. And discover the ultimate fate of the remains of both Adolf Hitler and Benito Mussolini. Both engrossing and gross reading at the same time, but filled with curious historical factoids. To be read when you're in a quirky mood! -- recommended by Scott C. - Bennett Martin Public Library [ see Scott's Reviewer Profile ]

[If you enjoy this, you may also wish to try The Dead Beat by Marilyn Johnson, and Stiff: The Curious Lives of Human Cadavers by Mary Roach.]

[ official Rest in Pieces and Bess Lovejoy web site ]


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Thursday, December 12, 2013

Customer Review - Kit's Wilderness

Kit's Wilderness
by David Almond [j Almond]

It's been a long time since I have read a book as unique in plot and style as Kit's Wilderness by David Almond. The story is set in an old mining town, where many stories abound about those who were trapped during cave-ins and other disasters. The theme revolves around memories, those which Kit is told by his grandfather, and those which help Kit's grandfather hold onto the present in his old age. Kit's Wilderness is a beautifully-woven tale which deservedly won the Michael Printz award for literary excellence. Kit's Wilderness is hard to classify, beyond calling it realistic fiction. Kit and his family have recently moved to the neighborhood to care for Kit's grandfather. Kit is troubled only in the sense that many of us are, in that he's haunted by the changes happening to someone he loves. Kit and his grandfather share a bond through stories. His grandfather tells him ones of the old mining town and Kit then writes them down and shares them at school. Through these stories, Kit earns admiration from both his teachers and his peers. One of those is Askew, who invites him to play his game of Death because the two can see into the spiritual world. When taking his turn in the abandoned den, Kit begins to see faces of those from the olden days. Another of these is Allie, who calls herself a bad kid but it's really more of a role than reality, as she reveals in her explanation about why she likes the theater: "Who's Allie Keenan? This almost-nice one or this truly bad one? It's like magic. I don't have to be me." Almond connects the mystical element to the theme of memories, because eventually Kit's grandfather must learn to sort through his past and his present (and figure out which is which) to stay grounded in reality. As part of this process, Kit's grandfather also has his own glimpses of the dead. In an interview with Teaching Books, Almond admits that when writing Kit's Wilderness he felt perhaps it was a bit too dark to write and maybe a bit too difficult for young readers. Indeed, death is an intense subject, but Almond masterfully handles it with many overlapping subplots involving Kit, Askew, and Kit's grandfather. Almond's reflective style hails back to the old classics, which means the writing may require a greater time commitment from readers. I am certain a reread of Kit's Wilderness is in my future, as I suspect it will feel richer each time it's read. -- review submitted by Allison H.-F. - a customer of the Bennett Martin Public Library

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Sunday, May 19, 2013

The Unlikely Pilgrimage of Harold Fry

The Unlikely Pilgrimage of Harold Fry
by Rachel Joyce

Probably my absolute favorite read for 2012! Retired businessman Harold Fry, stuck in a life of established routine with his wife Maureen, with whom he barely communicates, finds his world put akilter when he receives a letter from a long-ago co-worker, Queenie Hennessy. Queenie is in a hospice in far northern England, dying, and just wants to say goodbye. Not a man of eloquent words, Harold none-the-less writes a short note to Queenie, puts on a jacket and tells Maureen he's going to drop off a letter at the nearest postbox. Only...when he gets to the neighborhood drop box, he continues on to the next box, and the next box after that. Ultimately, Harold finds himself walking down the road, starting in Southern England and planning to walk all 500 miles to Queenie's bedside, reasoning to himself that Queenie will have to live long enough for him to say goodbye in person. What starts off as a fairly lightweight, quirky novel, quickly builds drama and emotion, as Harold meets a number of colorful characters who help him on his journey. Though the antics of some of the folks who join him on his travels threaten to distract him from his mission, Harold looks deep within himself to find the strength to carry on, and to deal with some of the personal crises in his own life at the same time. A surprisingly weighty and emotional book! [Also enjoyable as an audiobook, read by actor Jim Broadbent.] -- recommended by Scott C. - Bennett Martin Public Library

[Also available in downloadable audio and downloadable E-book formats.]

[ official Rachel Joyce web site ]


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Friday, June 22, 2012

New Customer Review - The Death Instinct

The Death Instinct
by Jed Rubenfeld [Rubenfeld]

Did you know the first terrorist act on American soil was in 1920? It was then that a wagon filled with dynamite blew up on Wall Street injuring or killing close to 400 people. The perpetrators have never been named or punished, but Rubenfeld's novel, which involves psychoanalysis, Madame Curie and radiation, World War I and police work make an exciting what-if about the topic. Not a quick or easy read, but definitely enjoyable.

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Sunday, October 30, 2011

How They Croaked


How They Croaked: The Awful Ends of the Awfully Famous
by Georgia Bragg [j920 Bra]

How They Croaked: The Awful Ends of the Awfully Famous, gives an educational twist to a macabre subject. Author Georgia Bragg's geared the book towards young adults who can explore how nineteen famous and infamous historical figures passed away. Braggs also sneaks in historical facts, highlighting events, historical facts and cultural issues that lead up to each great figure's death. These facts include; old fashioned medical remedies, political climate and relevant life stats on each figure. Braggs witty writing is accompanied by black and white pen and ink illustrations from Kevin O'Malley, which add a fantastic visually explanatory effect. Was Ludwig Van Beethoven buried, or are pieces of his body up for auction? Did Edgar Allen Poe succumb to rabies, tuberculosis or both? Where is Albert Einstein's brain's final resting place? Did King Tut die of a broken leg? How They Croaked includes answers to hard pressing questions like these and more! Check it out for the whole family to enjoy a great informational and spooky October read. [If you enjoy this, you may also wish to try A Tale Dark & Grimm. By Adam Gidwitz (based on the tales of Jacob Grimm), Uncle John's Bathroom Reader (series -- 031 Bat/jPB Bathroom Readers), Wonderstruck by Brian Selznick, and The Hunger Games by Suzanne Collins.] -- recommended by Glory B. - Bennett Martin Public Library

[ official Georgia Bragg web site ]

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Thursday, June 23, 2011

Two Kisses for Maddy


Two Kisses For Maddy
by Matthew Logelin [Biography Logelin]

"Life and death. All in a 27-hour period." This is the heart-wrenching memoir of a man who welcomed his premature baby into the world only to lose her mother the next day. The book envelops us from the first page into two stories. We are immersed in Matt's thoughts and feelings as he navigates the memories of meeting and building a relationship with his wife Liz - from high school to delivery, the anticipation of meeting their daughter Maddy. and everything that comes with losing a spouse and raising an infant. From the emotional highs and lows, to the struggle to live daily with tangible memories of his wife surrounding him and reflected in his daughter Maddy's face. This story will move the reader from tears to laughter along with him because of the gripping, unedited, raw emotion. The book does contain 'rough' language - as did his corresponding blog.. However, it is used to capture his voice and honest reactions. The tale also brings hope for Matt and Maddy - and hope for the future, that things can change for widows/widowers and society in general. An added bonus is that you can jump onto his blog and see how the Logelin family's life has evolved and how Maddy has thrived.

[If you enjoy this, you may also wish to try a fiction book called Good Grief written in 2005 by author Lolly Winston. She is widowed at the age of 36. For her, the death of her husband sets off a sprial of events in the first year - some crazy, some sane. In her journey, she rediscovers who she is and re-prioritizes her life to reflect who she has become. Not only does our heroine become a Big Sister to a troubled teen, but there is an element of romance and re-birth. Written with comedic tone, this quick read gives us another look at how grief can equal growth. (But not without the dreaded growing pains.)] -- both recommended by Sarah J. - South Branch Library

[ official Matt Logelin blog -- where this book began! ]

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